I was in the same boat as you.
And what I did to get around it was to start searching the internet for mashups.
Look for songs that you know and love and see if someone on Soundcloud or Hearthis have come up with a mashup of the vocals you know, but incorporates some of the high energy EDM in to it. I find that way, I can still enjoy the track by “singing along” with the lyrics.
Don’t forget, that a lot of 90s music is high energy too – so some retro stuff in your sets may help as well.
