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July 11, 2011 at 8:04 am #3536
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MemberYea I hear you but most of the time requesters are blind drunk and wanna hear the same song they listened in the car on the way to the club.
A few months ago I was playing at a Dj comp and a guy came up and asked for a track that was played by the bloke before me.
Gone are the days where Djs were taste makers.July 11, 2011 at 8:21 am #3538U31
MemberLol was there ever a time when DJ’s WERE taste makers?
Even at the old warehouse days of the the late 80’s early 90’s we’d get drunks rocking up… we called ’em plastics, plastic heads or plastic ravers
(once or twice i was maybe one of em… :p )July 11, 2011 at 8:21 am #3539Arthol Gibson
ParticipantI dont think anyone here will disagree with you. A request is sometimes the only form of conversation you’d have with your crowd – apart from cheers and jeers about the night/your set.
They can, however, betray the mood and abuse the privilege by assuming you will jukebox the night away. That, and the aggressive tenacity of some patrons, is what most DJs dislike.I too enjoy a crowd request. Alot of times you’ll assume the stereotype of a crowd and one request can switch up your whole set and night for the better, on both sides. A few times I’ve been stumped as to what would get a crowd going and a request set the course for a sweaty night of fun.
I have never seen a crowd completely satiated by an arrogant DJ. It’s one of the few cues that someone is more passionate about the limelight rather than the music and the people.
July 11, 2011 at 8:36 am #3541mailman
MemberI’ll admit that I’ve made a few drunk requests in my time but I found that 90% of the time the DJ already had that song in mind and was planning on playing it anyway.
And requests can be a lot of fun as well, at a pub/club I used to go to a lot with mates there was always the same DJ every night we went. One of my best mates and I used to always request the same song and the DJ used to love us for it because he loved the song and told us that he got so fed up with having to play cheesy top 40 stuff and we gave him an excuse to play less mainstream house music…we ended up becoming mates with him and he used to give us free drink cards haha
Funnily enough saw this guy out at a club last weekend after not being to his venue in over 2 years.
July 15, 2011 at 10:52 pm #3885DJ Loso
MemberSome requests , can give you an idea on what the crowd wants to hear, which you can just go off that request and have a good set.Like everyone mentioned, some people request music that doesnt go with the vibe you created, and can get adamant on you playing that request.Im not a jukebox lol
July 16, 2011 at 12:16 am #3889DJ Stone Crazy
ParticipantI agree. Still, some folks are asking for a stomping when it comes to request. Last Sunday, some dude told me to stop playing “Ghetto Music” and play the Cure. Heads were nodding and he tells me to change my music. I’m still holding on to my belief that rock music lovers are the biggest douches.
July 16, 2011 at 8:46 pm #3933yournamehere
MemberDJ Stone Crazy, post: 3882 wrote: I agree. Still, some folks are asking for a stomping when it comes to request. Last Sunday, some dude told me to stop playing “Ghetto Music” and play the Cure. Heads were nodding and he tells me to change my music. I’m still holding on to my belief that rock music lovers are the biggest douches.
I’ve had rock contingents every bar show I’ve ever worked, some more hostile than others. I started beatmatching/blending across genres to keep myself sane, but it ended up being a useful skill that can keep a room of disparate interests happy enough to drink for several hours. What were you playing besides “Make It Rain” at the time? I’m curious. Sounds like Cure douche was the dude trying to be a rapport leech for requests he couldn’t get in outside his car or house. There’s nothing wrong with not playing every request, to be sure.
My all-time favorite THIS SHOULD NOT HAVE WORKED moment was at a frat party when the social came up (absolutely hammered) and insisted I throw on the chicken dance in the middle of a banging club rap set. It so totally worked.
July 16, 2011 at 9:22 pm #3936DJ Stone Crazy
Participantyournamehere, post: 3926 wrote: I’ve had rock contingents every bar show I’ve ever worked, some more hostile than others. I started beatmatching/blending across genres to keep myself sane, but it ended up being a useful skill that can keep a room of disparate interests happy enough to drink for several hours. What were you playing besides “Make It Rain” at the time? I’m curious. Sounds like Cure douche was the dude trying to be a rapport leech for requests he couldn’t get in outside his car or house. There’s nothing wrong with not playing every request, to be sure.
My all-time favorite THIS SHOULD NOT HAVE WORKED moment was at a frat party when the social came up (absolutely hammered) and insisted I throw on the chicken dance in the middle of a banging club rap set. It so totally worked.
True enough, diversity is the key. Still, calling it “ghetto music” was uncalled for. I was also playing house music.
July 16, 2011 at 9:34 pm #3939Emma Partnow
MemberDJ Stone Crazy, post: 3882 wrote: I agree. Still, some folks are asking for a stomping when it comes to request. Last Sunday, some dude told me to stop playing “Ghetto Music” and play the Cure. Heads were nodding and he tells me to change my music. I’m still holding on to my belief that rock music lovers are the biggest douches.
‘Ghetto Music’ was an Absolute Insult :eek:;
I am Sorry you had to Tolerate that my Friend 🙁July 17, 2011 at 6:11 am #3949yournamehere
MemberDJ Stone Crazy, post: 3929 wrote: True enough, diversity is the key. Still, calling it “ghetto music” was uncalled for. I was also playing house music.
*shrug* I live in Texas. “Ghetto music” is in the polite spectrum of what I’ve heard from drunks, even when they mean well. (Not to mention club/bar management or private party throwers.)
The only time someone got in my face about rap and dropped n-bombs, I was in my first regular bar show (in a dive rock crowd) back when we were strictly using CDs.
“Hey, do you have NIN’s ‘Closer’?”
“Not on me right now. The only one I’ve got is the 50 Cent remix (this was in the yonder days before mash-ups, ha).”
“Eww, no, I don’t want that (n-bomb) $#!+. My daughter and I want the original.”
“Sorry, I don’t have it.”20 minutes later, the same woman came up with her not-so-attractive daughter.
“So, do you still not have ‘Closer’?”
“I haven’t gone anywhere and nobody brought it to me, so I’ve still got the same one I told you about earlier.”
“All you have is (f-ing)(n-bomb) trash in a rock bar. What the (f) is wrong with you? Play ‘Closer’ for me and my mom!”
“Fine, (cued up the mash-up and faded it in) all the ‘Closer’ you can stomach.”They were thrilled until GO GO GO SHORTY IT’S YOUR BIRTHDAY started. We swapped middle fingers and I went about my business.
The only other time I’ve had direct racism my way, it was from people who were leaving because I showed up with equipment and they were talking trash as they walked out the door. My bottom line has always been to brush off stupid ish as long as I’m getting paid enough. Or work where they have bouncers and I don’t have to eat stupid remarks from morons.
July 17, 2011 at 8:35 pm #3997Emma Partnow
MemberRacism is Disgusting and Makes Me Sick To The Inner Core 🙁
July 17, 2011 at 8:52 pm #4000Ivan P
ParticipantI have no problem being a dick to patrons who’s request is for me NOT to play a certain genre of music. My experience with this usually happens with hip hop heads who have no tolerance for house music, especially if I had just finished playing a massive urban set and had barely played my first house/dance track and they’re crying for more hip hop already.
July 18, 2011 at 4:40 pm #4055D-Jam
ParticipantI don’t mind requests, but too often it’s a case of the “wrong place” or “wrong timing”.
A night is advertised as a trance night, house night, or even “underground” night, but some girl always shows up who thinks the entire crowd would rather listen to pop or mainstream music. Or some old fart believes the crowd would love to hear some classic rock over the dance music you’re paid to play.
My biggest grudge with requests is how often they’re completely against what you’re being paid to play. I remember when I was playing music at a European style cafe I got some guys one night wanting 80s metal. Um…hello? Does this look like a rock bar? The owner himself didn’t want it, but these guys can’t seem to understand what they’re doing is like walking into a biker bar and asking to hear Ke$ha.
Another time I had a Polish girl who was celebrating her birthday and wanted to hear some Scooter…plus asked me to “crank it!”. The owner said “no” because he didn’t want loud pounding music in his venue…just more mellow “atmosphere” music. Still this girl was all in a “me me me me me” mode and couldn’t understand that birthday or not, it’s not all about her.
I’ve had trance nights where people beg to hear rap music, house nights where people want pop, etc. What generally bothers me is when a night is PROMOTED to be a certain sound, people seem to think it doesn’t matter. Worse is when a manager who wants to get laid is telling you to forget what the promoter is pushing and play whatever the girls want.
Would you want Paul Van Dyk stopping his trance set to play Lil Jon? Would you want Grandmaster Flash or Qbert stopping their sets to play Britney Spears?
If I’m playing a wedding or some party like that, or a local bar, or some corporate event, then I’d better damn well be happy to take requests…but when I’m playing a club night where it’s about promoting a vibe or atmosphere or select sound, then take your requests to totally change the music and go to another venue.
July 19, 2011 at 5:30 pm #4167DJ Stone Crazy
ParticipantDeeJayIvan, post: 3993 wrote: I have no problem being a dick to patrons who’s request is for me NOT to play a certain genre of music. My experience with this usually happens with hip hop heads who have no tolerance for house music, especially if I had just finished playing a massive urban set and had barely played my first house/dance track and they’re crying for more hip hop already.
You’re right, they can be douche’s too.
July 19, 2011 at 7:29 pm #1001117Michael M. Hughes
ParticipantOne thing that has worked for me: since my event is monthly and recurring, it has its own Facebook page. I’ve occasionally posted and asked for requests in advance. Some have alerted to me to new songs or remixes, which I’ve worked into the evening’s set. It also can give you an idea of what your crowd likes.
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