I’m in my mid 40s with two kids under the age of 10, so i can relate to everything being said here. Most of my friends are also younger than me and probably go out more than i do, regardless, it dosen’t really matter cos the key is being social.
I am quite a social guy so i can meet and mix easily and this should be your aim. I have also met some really cool people online and i have met other people through them as well ( just like what is happening here).
Go out by yourself, i do it all the time when i travell abroad. You will meet and blend with people and things will grow from there. Don’t be afraid to approach other DJ’s you like, you can strike some really good chords with the humble Djs.
As Puff Daddy said ” don’t let nobody hold you down”