Friend are too "old"….

hey Ernie Sega! I noticed you are in the Ontario region, be great to chit chat with another DJ that’s going through the same steps as me especially when you’re my age with the same martial status! Even though we are both looking to get our stardom on but be nice to have someone to talk about these kind of things.

28 years old? You’re just a pup old fruit 😉

I’m 37, not married (yet) but I have children from a previous relationship. I find myself having 2 groups of friends, the friends within 5 years each way of my age, who I’ve known years, and then everyone else who are at least 25 and mostly younger. I met the younger mob simply through being in that scene, so in my opinion it’s a case of putting yourself out there and you will soon meet people the “right” age. Which is basically what D-Jam said up thread 🙂

I’m 41 out here in the DC area and trying to get things going. Have got a regular monthly EDM night at a non-profit art space, and have gotten a couple of gigs. You never know what doors can open! And yes, I do this while holding down a regular 9-5. No kids though, so that helps.

You could rename yourself “DJ Granny” then 😉

My kids don’t live with me, so I’m sort of childless. However the missus is fairly keen on starting a family in the next few years so I’ll probably be a dad again before I’m 40. The things we do to keep our ladies happy. I’ll still be gigging though, that much won’t change. Someone should start a “grumpy old DJs” thread 😀

I think there is already a DJ Daddy Cool somewhere :O

I’m in the same boat as you man. All my friends are in relationships and they think it means they can’t go out anymore. Most of em stay home almost every weekend leaving me with nothing to do. So… Go out alone, if you’re quiet or shy then you won’t be for long. Eventually you’ll get bored and start talking to people, I do it all the time now. It’s getting pretty easy, even in a city like Toronto where so many people have their nose up in the air.