I bought a house with a large basement…. the whole basement is full of boxes and stuff and I am getting threats on my life from the girlfriend on a regular basis… not to mention my “office” which basically is full with an iMac on one table with keyboards, Maschine, monitors and a laptop, DJ controller, monitors etc. on the other table. (Honey where should I put my computer???? )
However there are mitigating factors I can recommend:
– Footrub (use in times of immediate danger, works like a charm)
– Quality time day out in the countryside
– compliment her on her looks when you get home
– watch a romantic movie (even if it pains you)
– if you are a wedding DJ, try to integrate her skills (my gf now does flower arrangements…)
– be honest (aka this is my job -> me make money -> buy pretty things is a good line of arguments)
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