A good way to practice digital matching is to set two 32beat loops and just when they matched knock the pitch fader on one to change the BPM then repeat. I use CDJs with quantized beats so the beat shouldn’t drift but they do so nudging the platter is needed. It’s like riding a bike once you get it you’ve got it. The rest is then like doing tricks on your bike. You’ve not said what hardware/software you’re using.
As for the EQ start with a flat setting (12 oclock) then it’s really done how you want to ovelay or bring in and take the tracks out. Watch youtube and watch how the DJs use the EQ’s. Some of the Pioneer video’s are good for this, also DJ Tutor/Ellaskins a deffinite must for begginers. Then there this sites online course; register for the emails.
You’re doing the right thing by recording your sets I record every one of mine and I’ll listen back to them over and over picking out the faults or noting how I could have done some better or different.
Consider getting a key analyzer if you don’t already have one to allow you to mix in key.
Library management is really about finding what’s best for you to help you find what you want quicker. I had several different systems over the years depending on what collection I was using. Currently I have a Genre folder and I can then sort/filter that folder by artist, BPM, Key,Date or Comment (This tells if High, Mid, Slow etc). I use RekordBox with my CDJs so everytime I play a history folder is created which if I want to save it I will. Some DJ like to use Itunes, I’m not one of them, it seems to slow and clunky to me nor do I use auto playlist. However, each to their own.
Stick to this site and you’ll get plenty of advise and tips, the ppl here are a good bunch.
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