My question is, what are you playing from your laptop that you need a 3.5mm cable to the mixer?
In any serious sound environment, using built-in sound cards is hardly ever a really good idea, especially when using flimsy connectors like 3.5mm which are great (well sort of) for headphones on mobile devices, but really have no place in your set up when you need to get sound from the PC out to the mixer.
The minimum I would do in such a case is get a good stereo (or dual stereo/quad channel depending on your need) external USB sound card with proper connectors, preferably balanced XlR or 6.3mm Jack and proper RCA for that short line out to a stereo line in on a small PA or DJ mixer.