Hi young friend. I moved your post to the appropriate forum. Keep an eye out for where you post your stuff and help make our lives easier 😀 .
As for your post. You seem focussed on getting gigs while you are hardly out of the harbor. Buying the (new and improved since today I might add!) How To course was a great first step, the next one is practice, practice and then practice some more. Then starts the playing out, where you learn to read the crowd/audience and learn how to make that musical journey happening.
This will most likely be in places like house party’s and such. Frankly, if you have never played out, there is a fair chance you are not ready to play a decent gig.
The other things is that your message radiates a “I really only want to play the music I like”. And to be honest, DJ-ing is about playing music THEY like. And if in the process of that you can educate your guest a bit by cleverly inserting some of your favorite tracks into the mix, then more power to you.
I’ve heard more than once that if you run a “3 for them – 1 for me” kinda set (i.e. only one out of 4 is one of your personal favorites, the rest favorite of the people you are playing for), you have a good balance.
Cause really, people won’t come to see you personally or listen to your personal taste in music, they come to have a good time. And the DJ should help accommodate that by setting the mood using his music. Sure, you can be a very strict genre DJ and work your way in to what will usually be a relatively small scene to begin with. But you’ll have to accept you’ll be in your bedroom a lot more than out at gigs.
Choice is yours, broaden your (musical) horizon, start playing whatever opportunity you can get (house parties, family BBQs, corporate friday happy hours, friends birthday parties) and keep improving your skills to a level that will make you not only ready but comfortable and self-assured enough to land some actual paying gigs.
Good luck on your journey. Keep us updated on how it develops.